No matter who you are, where you’re from, what you do or what you believe in…
Your future true love will be the one who…
YOU CAN BE TOTALLY YOURSELF WITH.
Yes, of course there will be other non-negotiables and attributes too, but true love ultimately means being able to be totally yourself with someone who is able to be truly themselves with you.
Otherwise it can’t be true love can it?
Being ourselves is being our authentic Self.
Being ourselves means having the courage to own and embrace who we are, and to show and share ourselves for all that we are.
BUT THERE’S A KEY DISTINCTION HERE….
Being ourselves does NOT give us permission to:
– React from our wounds
– Bring our baggage to our partnership
– Pursue men (particularly if it’s from a place of fear)
– Be bitchy or nag
– Be unavailable for real love and intimacy
– Hide our real truth or our real “yes” or “no”
– Pretend we’re something we’re not or people please
– Play games or manipulate in any way
– Be clingy or not own our own emotions or needs
– Be emotionally unavailable for men
Because all of those things above (and the MANY more that we act out before we awaken) are your FALSE SELF.
]Plus, they’ll sabotage you anyway, my dear.
So one of the keys to finding (and sustaining) true love is to come home to yourself.
The TRUE YOU without your old traumas, wounds and triggers.
The TRUE YOU who has cleared all the complex misalignments so can attract the right man instead.
The TRUE YOU who can show up with discernment yet with her heart truly open because she is already whole, WORTHY, and a force of pure love.
The TRUE YOU who responds from intuition, healthy vulnerability and authenticity, not with drama.
The TRUE YOU who your TRUE LOVE will be attracted to and want to commit to.
Because here’s the thing…until we awaken we don’t really realise just how in our FALSE SELF we are, or how far away from true love we really are.
We go on more dates hoping to solve all this in the external world. But the answer is not in the external world or the next man. The shift must take place internally in you FIRST. Otherwise you will have more painful experiences…because they are trying to wake you up.
The beauty and freedom of life (as well as the perfect partner) come when we transition from the wounded woman to the awakened woman….
From the false Self to the true Self…
From dysfunctional relating to healthy relating.
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***This is ONLY for financially secure women who are 100% committed action takers and are ready to do what it truly takes to find true love***
Love Mentor xx